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If he forces you to do things, against your will, he is not in love with you.Whether it is going to a baseball game, when you hate outdoor stadiums, or, even more harsh an act, makes you perform sexually against your will, he is NOT in love with you.If you are in a relationship where it seems that you have no time to yourself, chances are you have a controlling boyfriend. There is no more “girls night out” for you and your friends, unless he is with you. When you do go out, it is to an event that HE chooses.You may not feel like going to a movie, but it is what he wants to do, for example.
If you try to question his whereabouts or activities, he will become defensive.
Not showing you the courtesy to respect your wishes is not a behavior that goes away.
This will continue as an abusive relationship, where you will be treated as an object, instead of a person.
For some, the fears go away without a second thought. That is the main reason a boyfriend can become a controlling nightmare.
It is hard to pinpoint the answer to why this behavior exists, but, if you feel as if you are being controlled, being able to identify the behavior is your first step to freedom.